One of my favorite people I ever encountered was asked, “Who are you, my dear?” Her response was, “nobody special.” The following made me think of her. She really was in so many ways, “somebody special.”
In the eating hall, a stuffed parrot hung from the ceiling, and from its golden beak dangled a card that read, “We are in training to be nobody special.” I had often repeated this to myself, working against my need for achievement and recognition, and the discontent that could engender. “I am in training to be nobody special.” Saying the words in my mind, I felt how they redirected me from a certain seductive struggle and excitement and disease, into a more stable focus: forget what others think of you, forget the future goal of achievement; arrive instead in this body/mind, attending to this present moment. This is the whole of practice. — Sandy Boucher, “Hidden Spring”
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