Now, we all know that stress’ll send a person straight to an early grave. But if you ask me, our modern healthcare system isn’t in the business of curing stress—it’s in the business of manufacturing the stuff! Just try booking a plain old doctor’s visit these days. You dial the number, praying for a friendly…
Lessons From a Sabbatical
I walked across the yard carrying a bag full of bedding and khaki clothes, wrapped tightly in the assumptions I’d spent a lifetime building about what I was about to experience. I soon learned, my room contained six men, six sets of habits, six different ways of looking at the world, all squeezed into a…
Dark Clouds and Brighter Horizons
In a recent New York Times editorial titled “Dark Clouds Rise In a Gathering Storm,” the forecast wasn’t about the weather. Most of us know to seek shelter when dark clouds roll in, especially when accompanied by lightning and thunder. Where I’m from, those ominous skies can quickly turn into destructive winds or tornadoes. The…
Hope in an Unlikely Place
It is easy to watch the news and conclude that we are a nation utterly fractured, permanently at war with ourselves over grand ideological battles. But sit in a running car outside a department store on a Saturday, and a very different picture emerges—one that is far more ordinary, and vastly more hopeful. I drove…
Garlic and Forgiveness
I’ve been spending a bit more time in the kitchen lately, learning a few basic recipes—nothing too complicated, mind you. But since I love dishes with a hefty touch of garlic, I naturally had to master chopping, mincing, and crushing it. It’s still very much a work in progress. That’s when I ran into a…
