How do we learn to love the unlovable? I’ve been thinking about the concept of loving the unlovable a lot. Learning to love the “unlovable” goes against our natural instincts of self-preservation and justice. I’m not talking about forgiveness which is a different concept and sometimes a different matter, but loving someone or something that…

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I’m not sure. I seem to be saying the above a lot more. When I was younger being “sure” was a given, and if one wasn’t, there was always plenty of time to make up from one’s mistakes. Now-a-days it seems that I am racing against a clock to make sure everything is in its…

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There is a creative part in each of us, a unique wellspring of imagination and expression, but often, it lies dormant, buried beneath the demands of daily life or the weight of self-doubt. I have always been a big fan of those who are openly, effortlessly creative. Anyone who could coax a melody from an…

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My childhood was basically a highlight reel of orthopedic mishaps. Back then, a scraped knee from a bike fall, a knot on the head from an ambitious expedition, or a fall from a tree usually just meant a quick patch-up from Mom and a stern, “Be a little more careful!” before I was off on…

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Places can become part of us, can imprint themselves on the soul like people we have loved. Because every place is part of a larger landscape, a cell in the body of the world, to fall in love with any one place — to contact its beckoning beauty, its vulnerability, its variousness — is to…

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