Who we are and who we become depends, in part, on whom we love. — Kepler.
Kepler’s observation is often used as a cautionary tale against unhealthy relationships. However, it can also be interpreted as a powerful invitation to self-reflection and appreciation for the people and things that have shaped our lives.
While it’s essential to recognize the potential dangers of unhealthy relationships, Kepler’s quote also suggests that love can be a transformative force. The people we love, the experiences we share, and the things we cherish can profoundly influence our character and identity.
Engaging in a “love inventory” can be a rewarding exercise in self-discovery. By reflecting on the people and things we have loved throughout our lives, we can gain valuable insights into our values, beliefs, and aspirations.
The goal is to appreciate the positive impact of love in our lives, rather than dwell on negative experiences. Love can take many forms, including familial love, friendships, romantic relationships, and even love for animals or nature. Reflect on how have the people and things you have loved influenced your personal growth and development over time? For those who have a relationship with God, reflecting on how that relationship has shaped your lives is a crucial part of a love inventory.
By conducting a love inventory, we can gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and the factors that have contributed to who we are today. This can be a valuable tool for personal growth, self-acceptance, and building healthier relationships in the future.
Good thoughts!