Thomas Merton’s wise words, “If we want to be spiritual, then, let us first of all live our lives,” have always resonated with me. I’ve often found myself drawn to the tranquil solitude of fishing, a pastime that seems so inherently spiritual. Yet, despite my admiration for friends like Basil, Jack, and David, who possess a natural affinity for the sport, I’ve struggled to connect with it on a personal level.
Growing up, my talents were more inclined towards ball sports. Baseball, football, and basketball came easily to me, but fishing eluded my grasp. Perhaps it was the patience required, or the quiet contemplation that felt so foreign after years of competitive athletics. Whatever the reason, I yearned for the peace and reflection I saw in those who mastered the art of fishing.
Merton’s advice to “live your life first” has been a valuable lesson. For many years, I tried to juggle multiple roles: the perfect father, the successful breadwinner, the community leader, and the quietly spiritual individual. The pressure to excel in all areas often left me feeling overwhelmed and unfulfilled. It wasn’t until I learned to embrace the present moment that I began to find the peace I sought.
God and Merton remind us to be gentle with ourselves. Spirituality isn’t a destination to be reached, but a journey to be embraced. By living each day fully and authentically, we open ourselves up to the spiritual experiences that await. Just as the fish may not always bite, the path to spiritual growth is not always linear. Trust in the process, and let the journey unfold at its own pace.
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