This morning, the phrase “One tiny word makes all the difference,” sent my mind racing.
As children, we were often told, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me.” But experience quickly taught us the fallacy of that saying. One poorly chosen word, a careless taunt or a thoughtless remark, could sting far more than any physical blow, leaving a bruise on the heart that lasted far a long time. Those “tiny words” could make or break a day, shaping our self-perception and influencing our interactions with others.
This understanding of the power of words only deepened as I grew. During my time practicing law, I was trained to meticulously listen for, even hunt for, that single, crucial word in a witness’s testimony or a legal document. That “one tiny word” could be the linchpin of a case, the key to unlocking the truth or exposing a deception. It could shift the entire trajectory of the proceedings, turning a seemingly open-and-shut case on its head.
And it’s not just in legal settings. Throughout life, we encounter countless situations where a single word carries immense weight. Think of the power of words like “I do,” “You’re hired,” or “I love you.” Conversely, words like “No,” “Divorce,” or “I’m sorry” can be equally impactful, carrying the weight of rejection, loss, or regret. These “tiny words” can alter the course of a relationship, a career, or an entire life.
The ability to listen for and discern the significance of these “tiny words” is a skill that remains invaluable. It requires us to be present, attentive, and empathetic, truly listening not just to the surface meaning but also to the underlying emotions and unspoken messages. And it also compels us to be mindful of the words we choose ourselves, recognizing the potential they have to build up or tear down, to heal or to wound. Especially the seemingly insignificant, “tiny” ones, those casual comments or offhand remarks, can have a profound impact on those around us.
This extends to our relationship with the divine as well. God often speaks to us in whispers, in what might seem like insignificant words or fleeting impressions. He communicates through subtle nudges, quiet moments of reflection, and even through silence. Sometimes, the most profound messages are delivered in the spaces between the words.
I encourage you to explore this idea further. Take some time, in a quiet moment, to reflect on the power of words in your own life. Try this exercise: Jot down a list of seemingly small, “tiny” words that, if spoken to you, would have a significant impact on your day, your week, or even your life. Consider the emotions and associations connected to each word. This exercise can be a powerful reminder of the weight that words carry, both for ourselves and for others. It can also help us to become more conscious and intentional in our communication, choosing our words with care and understanding the profound difference that “one tiny word” can make.
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