My son, pay attention to what I say; listen closely to my words…….guard your heart, for its the wellspring of your life. — Proverbs 4: 20-23 If the above were to be written today probably the only way it would get across to one’s children or grandchildren would be by texting it to them. Sitting down at…

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Sometimes there is nothing on TV to watch at night despite there being hundreds of channels. So occasionally I watch “really bad TV,” as Suzy calls it while she leaves the room. Last night I was watching “one of those shows,” when a nugget fell into my lap. Y’all know I have been struggling as…

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First, forgive me Luis and Lou and all ABD fans for using the Duke AD as a source. Kevin White, Duke’s Athletic Director, when describing what it takes to be a successful coach said leadership was the main trait.  White said he looks for four dimensions of leadership; task orientation, passion, situational flexibility and empathy.  It was…

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Y’all know I get frustrated with politicians, campaigns, and campaign ads that never say what the candidate is “for.” We just had a Senatorial campaign last year in NC where over $100 million was spent on TV ads, and not one said what the candidate was “for.” They all explained why we should vote against…

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Everyone is familiar with the phrase “drawing a line in the sand,” so too the concept of “one last chance.” Grandma Danny take a different position. She writes, “ Always give a fellow another chance when he behaves badly, and still another chance after that. Never draw a line beyond which you won’t allow a…

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