Grateful

 

Eventually we will find (mostly in retrospect, of course) that we can be very grateful to those people who have made life most difficult for us. — Ayya Khema, “When the Iron Eagle Flies”

 
Practically every time I speak I am asked, “Why aren’t you bitter?” How can you speak so kindly about these who prosecuted you?” My answer is never as eloquent as Khema’s quote above, but now that I have found it, I will definitely use it, for it expresses how I feel.
We can spend our whole existence being angry, bitter, or resentful about others and they way they treated us, but what will our life be at its end but a life of bitterness, anger, and resentfulness.
The teacher who gives us a bad grade shapes our life just as much, if not more, than the teacher who introduces us to a world of poetry and literature. The coach who benches you or spews anger and meanness, is shaping us just as much as the coach who takes our game to the next level. The bully and the friend both shape us as children, and though we rightfully condemn the conduct when it happens, “in retrospect” we can be grateful that his/her conduct taught us who we didn’t ever want to become.
Life’s lessons come from very unlikely places. I wouldn’t wish some of the places I’ve visited on my worst enemy, but I wouldn’t trade places either.

About the author

Webb Hubbell, former Associate Attorney General of the United States, is an author and lecturer. His novels, When Men Betray, Ginger Snaps, and A Game Of Inches, are published by Beaufort Books and are available online, in your local bookstore, or you can order autographed copies at webbhubbell.com. When Men Betray won one of the IndieFab awards for best novel in 2014. Ginger Snaps Won the IPPY Awards Gold Medal for best suspense/thriller. He is also a contributor to The Clyde Fitch Report.

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