I heard from our Sufi master, Tom, the other day. He had attended a funeral of a dear friend. When they first met, Tom’s friend was a brilliant but angry black man. Tom’s work put them together, and at this man’s funeral Tom learned that his friend had told his wife, ““I don’t hate whites any more.” When she asked him about it, he said, “I met this guy, Tom…”.
Now I relate this story not to tell you about the character of Tom. We all know how special he is. Tom’s story about he and his friend is about opportunity. Each of us has a chance to develop relationships with someone completely different than ourselves if we only remain open. Tom and his friend got past bigotry, prejudice, and anger by finding common ground and interests. As Tom says they became “brothers.”
We all have opportunities like Tom. Don’t let them pass you by.
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