Intimacy

In a recent essay, I encountered an observation by the poet David Whyte: “To become intimate is to become vulnerable not only to what I want and desire in my life, but to the fear I have of my desire being met.” Intimacy, a complex and often terrifying endeavor, is nonetheless one of the most fundamental human yearnings.

As I pondered this concept, a question arose: “Can one cultivate an intimate relationship with God?” Such a relationship necessitates a redefinition of intimacy, one that embraces a willingness to endure suffering beyond our imagination.

While the potential rewards of an intimate relationship with God are immeasurable, the risks are equally significant. Just as in human relationships, vulnerability is a cornerstone of divine intimacy. By exposing our deepest selves to the divine, we risk rejection, disappointment, and a profound sense of loss. Yet, it is precisely through this vulnerability that we experience the transformative power of God’s love.

The pursuit of intimacy with God, like any deep human connection, is a journey marked by both joy and pain. It requires courage, faith, and a willingness to surrender to the divine mystery. The rewards, however, are eternal: a love that surpasses all understanding, a peace that transcends all circumstances, and a hope that endures forever.

About the author

Webb Hubbell is the former Associate Attorney General of The United States. His novels, When Men Betray, Ginger Snaps, A Game of Inches, The Eighteenth Green, and The East End are published by Beaufort Books and are available online or at your local bookstore. When Men Betray won one of the IndieFab awards for best novel in 2014. Ginger Snaps and The Eighteenth Green won the IPPY Awards Gold Medal for best suspense/thriller. His latest, “Light of Day” will be on the bookstands soon.

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