I came across the word examen recently. At first, I thought it was a misspelling, but it means a spiritual practice that invites us to reflect on the past day – when we have been faithful and when we have strayed. There are many variations of this practice among religions. Wendy Miller in her book Invitation to Presence suggests that we reflect on three questions: “Lord, where have I met you? Where have I missed you? Where have I moved with you?

All three of her questions involve paying attention or “being awake.” In my  EFM class we used to refer to God trying to move us in a certain direction as “nudges.” I often find that I meet God in the most unlikely places or while doing things where it is unlikely to encounter God. I also suspect I have a lot of work to do on the “missing God” part of Miller’s questions.

In today’s meditation try asking yourself these three questions. You might find you were more awake than you thought, or like me, more asleep at the switch.

About the author

Webb Hubbell is the former Associate Attorney General of The United States. His novels, When Men Betray, Ginger Snaps, A Game of Inches, The Eighteenth Green, and The East End are published by Beaufort Books and are available online or at your local bookstore. When Men Betray won one of the IndieFab awards for best novel in 2014. Ginger Snaps and The Eighteenth Green won the IPPY Awards Gold Medal for best suspense/thriller. His latest, “Light of Day” will be on the bookstands soon.


  1. Often at night, during my prayers, I wonder where and how I’ve missed our Lord and His Holy Spirit that day.

    Listening is such an important part of life, but we don’t know that until later. Shame.

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