Friends

Throughout my life, I’ve been incredibly fortunate to experience the enduring power of friendship. From childhood companions to the unexpected bonds forged during my sabbatical—like Razor and Breeze, whose presence enriched my time immeasurably—I’ve learned that genuine connection is a universal human need. We all thrive on the support, camaraderie, and shared experiences that friendships provide. The idea that one can have ‘too many’ friends simply doesn’t resonate with me; each relationship adds a unique dimension to life.

This need for connection isn’t exclusive to humans. We see it reflected in the animal kingdom and, on a grander scale, in the relationships between nations. Just as individuals seek support and understanding, countries forge alliances, recognizing the strength found in unity. These alliances, like human friendships, don’t demand perfection. They acknowledge that differences and occasional disagreements are inherent in any meaningful relationship.

My own experience with a childhood friend illustrates this perfectly. He was, paradoxically, both my closest confidant and my fiercest rival. We engaged in countless battles of wit and strength, each victory savored, yet no dispute could sever the underlying bond. Our fights were intense, but fleeting, never lasting longer than a day. The bedrock of our friendship—mutual respect and unwavering support—transcended any temporary conflict. This enduring bond taught me a valuable lesson: true friendship can withstand even the most challenging circumstances.

This lesson resonates deeply on a national level. Our country, like any individual, benefits from strong, reliable allies. We must remember that these relationships are not predicated on flawless agreement or absolute uniformity. They are built on shared values, mutual interests, and a willingness to navigate differences constructively. Just as my childhood friendship endured despite our frequent clashes, our nation’s alliances can thrive through open dialogue and a commitment to understanding. We must cultivate relationships that are resilient, adaptable, and grounded in mutual respect, recognizing that true strength lies not in isolation, but in the power of collective support.

About the author

Webb Hubbell is the former Associate Attorney General of The United States. His novels, When Men Betray, Ginger Snaps, A Game of Inches, The Eighteenth Green, and The East End are published by Beaufort Books and are available online or at your local bookstore. When Men Betray won one of the IndieFab awards for best novel in 2014. Ginger Snaps and The Eighteenth Green won the IPPY Awards Gold Medal for best suspense/thriller. His latest, “Light of Day” will be on the bookstands soon.

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